5 Ways to Start Working With Parents

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Lead by Example

Our actions and reactions set the tone for those around us, including parents who look to us for guidance and mirror our behavior. Remember, it’s not only the players who observe and emulate us; parents also think, “If the coach is doing it, then I can too.” If the only influence you had on your parents was your example, what would you do differently?

Be Grateful for the Opportunity to Coach

Parents invest significant amounts of time, money, and emotional energy in supporting their children’s athletic pursuits. Regardless of their other options, they have chosen to place their trust in you as a coach. Take the time to express gratitude by saying simple expressions like “Thank you for allowing me to coach your child.”

Share Your Coaching Philosophy (And Story)

Find opportunities to communicate your philosophy—whether it’s through an information meeting before tryouts, the first practice, or even a simple email introducing yourself and your approach. Every philosophy has a story behind it. It could stem from your personal history as an athlete or a significant moment in your coaching career. Collect these stories and share them often. Parents should know 1) why you coach 2) why you coach the way you do 3) and your vision (not just goals) for the athletes experience.

Turn Your Pre-Season Parent Meeting into an Experience

Parents need opportunities and space to get to know other athletes and parents, build relationships, and bring them together around a common goal. Only when these connections are built are parents able to truly support the entire team and genuinely care for the other athletes. 1. Host a parent experience event in your program or include it as part of your official parent meeting. Start by having fun together: do a team-building activity, take team photos together, run a “parent practice,” or share a meal. Consider finishing the event by co-creating a set of parent standards for the team to ensure success and a positive experience.

In conclusion, positive engagement with parents is essential for fostering a prosperous and harmonious athletic environment. By leading by example, showing gratitude for the opportunity to coach, sharing your coaching philosophy and personal story, and turning pre-season parent meetings into meaningful experiences, you can establish strong connections with parents beyond just coaching their children. Building these relationships not only enhances the overall experience for athletes but also creates a supportive and unified sports community where everyone can work together towards common goals. Remember that parents play a crucial role in the development of young athletes, and your efforts in engaging them positively can have a lasting and positive impact on the entire team.